When you get married, you might think about spending holidays with your spouse for the rest of your life. But when you get divorced, all you can think about is how to survive the upcoming season.

Many couples wait until after the holidays to start the divorce process, but you and your spouse might want to get it out of the way. If this is the case, read on and take note of these important ideas.

Finances

During the holidays, you might feel the urge to spend a lot of money on gifts and travel. However, one of the most important things to do when you are going through a divorce is to cut back on spending. Divorce can be expensive: In Minnesota, a divorce filing fee alone is $365. This is why you have to be careful with your finances during this time.

Emotional support

When you are going through a divorce, it is easy to get caught up in the court battles, the confusion and the overall drama. On top of this, divorce can feel lonely when you are no longer with your significant other, especially around the holidays. This is why it is important to stay in touch with your friends and family at a time like this. Their support can go a long way in helping you get your bearings.

The holidays can be a stressful time for everyone, but they can be especially difficult for people who are going through a divorce. The good news is that with the right preparation, you can make the holidays easier to manage.